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September 1988
Some Changes - Especially for Women
Perhaps the only sure thing I am
going to share here is that men and women are different - and even that
premise may be called into question by philosophically astute readers who
could make a compelling case that, in essence and at the depth of their
being, men and women alike are souls, and there are not male souls and
female souls. Just souls. Distaff dharma has become pan of a minor
revolution for this paper.
In this issue, Hinduism Today
inaugurates several changes designed to make our journal more useful to
the Hindu public. We have increased from 16 pages each month to 20. This
has two major advantages. Most importantly, the editors will no longer
have to stammer defensively when confronted by intransigent writers who
have worked diligently for days or weeks on a story, gathering data,
collecting quotable quotes, checking facts, researching background, only
to hear that there isn't enough space to present all that information and
the article will have to be cut in half! Four more pages means more news.
We have determined that actual news (not including columns, features,
centerfold graphic posters and editorial page items) will be doubled in
the larger edition. That benefit is somewhat neutralized this first month
due to reprinting, by popular demand, our now famous four-page "Truth is
One, Paths Are Many" center section. Starting in October, there will be a
profusion of news, longer articles, larger photos and more
graphics.
Another change is that our once quarterly Global Dharma
News Digest will henceforth be printed monthly. It seems many readers are
busy professionals who like their news brief and to the point, and they
find a glance at this page gives them an overview of Hinduism in several
nations. And they don't want to wait three months for the next news
fix.
You may have noticed another change when you first opened your
paper. It is folded differently, with page one showing. Sensible, no? For
a long time we rationalized that putting the mailing label on page one
would ruin its graphic integrity. I can hear what you're thinking: "Boy,
those so-called Desktop Publishing artisans finally saw the light. I could
have told them years ago page one is always on the outside of a
publication. That's why it's called page one." We know. We
know.
The last change you will find in this issue is our new
Women's page. Of all the changes, we find it the most fascinating, the
most fervent, the most functional, the most forbidding. Why? Reasons
abound. The name itself is a built-in time bomb. One of the first women we
mentioned the new feature to scowled, "Oh, and so where's the page for
men?" She's right to be indignant. Our paper is for the whole Hindu
community, from front to back, and no one intends that because there is
one page titled "Women" the other nineteen are for more serious readers
(this to be read humorously, with appropriate disdain for male
chauvinists, a protected species on the planet).
No, our purpose is
quite the opposite. It is to provide editors and writers with a space
where more information for women readers can appear. Information may
include little-known village remedies like putting a handful of tumeric on
a child's wound to stop the bleeding. Information will hopefully also
include some tough issues and maybe some controversy-provoking opinions.
Hindu women, like women everywhere, are in the midst of extraordinary
changes. Fifteen percent of Hindu women live outside of India. But even in
India they are entering careers, coping with new demands and needing new
tools. Less than Islamic society but more than Swedish, Hindu culture is
orthodox and conservative, and instinctively resistant to changing the
position of women in any way. To a large extent, it is men protecting
their turf, but women themselves are struggling to redefine their
relationships, confronting contradictions in their own ideals. Among 325
million Hindu women, some certainly defend the strictest traditional ways
and find blissful fulfillment in the home and family. Others, wanting full
self-determination, are quietly making it clear they intend to compete on
equal footing with men in science, medicine or business.
I believe
that Hinduism has far more wisdom than any other tradition with which to
tackle many of these issues. I also believe that Hindu men and women are,
for spiritual reasons, more at ease with themselves and with each other.
There is more insight that the man/woman dichotomy is not inherently a
we-they conflict, but a means of mutual spiritual progress and growth.
Some of this can be attributed to that unique quality of Hinduism which
allows the Divine to be feminine as well as masculine (the male Deity
rules in most of the world's pantheons). Then too, there is among Hindus
an intuitive understanding of the karmic rules of the game, that we all
take male bodies and female bodies. If we are a man in this life, it may
be wise to treat women well, for we can expect our own actions and
attitudes to justly return when next we are born with two X chromosomes.
The law is clear: what you give, you will get.
But all is not
sweetness and light in Asia. Hindus are primates, like everyone else, and
there are problems in these areas that need to be discussed, illuminated,
argued over, criticized and redefined. A few indicators may help define
where some of the bones are buried. When at Oxford in April, I asked a
Jain nun her opinion about a debate that was going on among some leaders.
She confessed, "My opinion matters little. I am a woman, and I am white."
She had learned, to her resigned dismay, that a woman's place is to serve,
not to express her thoughts. Other signs come to mind: increased divorce
rates; unabating physical abuse of women in India; Pramukh Swami's
notorious vow which requires him to refuse to speak with or even be in a
room with a woman; Hare Krishna's medieval attitude toward women and
family life (of which more in a future issue) and Indian laws which
require a woman to be accompanied by her mother-in-law in order to visit a
gynecologist (in the power-struggle view, mom represents her son's
interests and thus deprives the wife of making her own decisions about
private matters). Interesting, no?
"The best thermometer to the
progress of a nation is its treatment of its woman. The idea of perfect
womanhood is perfect independence. Hindu women are very spiritual and very
religious, perhaps more so than any other women of the
world."
Swami Vivekananda
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