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January 1993
Let's Talk About Abortion
Subramuniyaswami, Sivaya
We have been talking about some
difficult and serious subjects lately. Last month, we explored the Hindu
view of suicide. It's important that we talk about these issues because
otherwise they are never discussed, and problems just continue to be
problems. This month we venture to speak on the unspeakable subject:
abortion. It is definitely a concern, not only to women and daughters, but
to husbands as well. The aborted child, if allowed to live, may have
become his heir, a preeminent member of society, and tenderly cared for
him and his wife in their elder years. But the man will never know and
will always wonder, wonder. This week, abortion is a concern all over
India, where abortion is legal. Doctors there have developed and will soon
release an inexpensive version of the French "abortion pill." Many see
this as a blessing for India's population problem and a safer alternative
to the thousands of surgical abortions performed in India, from which many
women die or suffer infections. It is perhaps a good time to reflect on
another side of this issue, on the karma and on the dharma.
Wives
often please their husbands by aborting an unwanted girl, but secretly
wonder, "Who is she? Who was she in her past life? Will she find another
womb to incarnate through? Would she perhaps have become a Florence
Nightingale, Madame Curie or Anandamayi Ma, a saint like Auvaiyar or
Mirabai?" The subliminal, subjective sadness that abortion brings, with
all the "maybes" that lie unanswered, in itself is a sign from the soul
that abortion is wrong. After all, the still, small voice of the soul
sometimes speaks loudly when a heinous sin is committed, and doesn't stop
talking until a counterbalancing punya, merit, is achieved and solace
sought for.
What is the prayaschitta, the penance, to be done at
atone for abortion? One that works very well in this modern age is to
adopt a child, raise it with tender, loving care, believing this is akin
to the aborted soul who sought to take refuge within the family. This,
then, atones. Mahatma Gandhi understood this principle when, one day, he
counseled a Hindu man who said he had slain a Muslim in revenge for his
son's killing at the Muslim's hands. He was deeply troubled about it.
Gandhi advised him to adopt and raise a Muslim boy as penance for the
deed.
A miscarriage is something different, an unintentional action
of nature, shall we say. Try again and the same soul will come through.
But Hindu scripture speaks strongly against the deliberate attempt to kill
a fetus, telling us life starts at conception, when the astral body of the
newborn child-to-be in the Antarloka is hovering over the bodies of the
mother and father. The Kaushitaki Upanishad 3.1 describes abortion as
equivalent to killing one's parents. The Atharva Veda 6.113.2 lists the
fetus slayer, brunaghni, among the greatest of sinners.
We hope
this is helpful. Our research with scholars and swamis tells us there is
nothing within Hinduism that opposes contraceptives or birth-control
methods. However, if conception occurs, the man and woman have already
taken on the karmic responsibility. It is dharma's path to then open the
doors of their hearts to receive him or her.
What about rape,
incest, adultery or premarital pregnancies? Mothers are the life-givers of
the planet. Even in these most terrible conditions, dharma gives no
permission to injure, and certainly not to kill.
However, it would
be a sin upon the child to be born and kill in mother in the process. This
is why abortion to save the life of the mother is the one and only
exception which tradition allows. Yet even that exception must not be
dealt with lightly by some clever doctor or some husband falsely saying,
"She might die" or "My wife's life is in peril," or by the devious wife
saying, "I am going to die if I don't abort this child." It must be an
honest diagnosis, not for the sake of money, not for the sake of saving
face in the community, not for the sake of repudiating an infant girl. It
must be an honest diagnosis, made by compassionate, dharmic
doctors.
If you want to know the central principles at work here,
they are ahimsa - nonviolence - the energy of God everywhere, the action
of the law of karma, the strict rules of dharma defined in our holy
scriptures, and the belief in reincarnation. These four make a Hindu a
Hindu and make not committing abortion an obvious decision. By accepting
reincarnation, we acknowledge souls existing subtle form in astral or
mental bodies waiting to incarnate through a womb. When that womb is
disturbed, this is recorded as a sense of eviction for them, and a serious
consequence in their reincarnational patterns, not to mention the effects
on the potential mother's life, and all those connected to her.
So,
we can see the consequences. This does not mean that anyone is cursing
anyone, or that there is any mortal sin involved. Still, any abortion
brings with it a karmic force of destruction that will come back on the
mother and father who set it in motion. They may be denied a dwelling.
They may be denied a noble child. They may beget a child who will
persecute them all the days of their life. The price is high for abortion,
much higher and more costly than giving birth, raising and educating the
child and establishing him or her in life.
Let's face it, animals
don't abort their children, fish don't abort their children, fowl don't
abort their children and, as far as I know, microscopic organisms don't
abort their children. Life must go on.
Nevertheless, abortions do
happen, have happened and will happen in the future. Men and women who
have participated, and their doctors and nurses, are involved in the deep
karmic consequences. The action's reaction, which is karma, must be
resolved in some way for a peace of mind, a quiescent state, to persist.
The Hindu religion does not condemn abortion, but advises against it. This
is because of the laws of personal dharma, social dharma and ahimsa -
noninjury to any living creature, physically, mentally or
emotionally.
Built within the great Hindu religion is the process
of atonement. One becomes his own psychiatrist by utilizing the psychology
that when something has happened it has to be fixed. Why would it have to
be fixed? Because the person or persons involved don't feel good about the
action, or the karma, which means action. Fixing is not only mending and
healing, it is eradicating the memory of the event - not actually a total
forgetfulness, but the emotions that comes up with the memory are
eradicated. This can be done in various ways. Write to the person who was
aborted and burn the letter in a fire. Explain how sorry you are, how you
are feeling, and attest that you will never do it again, or that you will
try to not ever do it again. This is a great way to unload a subconscious
mind that is filled with guilt. Write it all down and burn it up. It is
out of you. It's ashes. You don't have to tell it to a friend and worry
that he will tell it to someone else, or confess it to a priest and worry
what he will do with this information. And you can avoid all those
psychiatrists' fees.
Hinduism is a free-flowing religion. It
threatens no enduring punishment, it preaches no mortal sin. It accepts
life the way it is, even its flaws and frailties. It teaches us the right
path, but knows we may not always follow that path and gives the remedies
to correct what bothers us at every stage of the great journey to moksha,
liberation from rebirth.
We have developed a small pamphlet "Hindu
Scriptures Speak on Abortion: Views of Ancient Rishis, Doctors, Law-givers
and Poets Revealed in Shruti and Smriti.' Send $2 to cover postage and
handling, and we will be happy to send you a free copy.
Article
copyright Himalayan Academy.
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