UNITED STATES, May 27, 2025 (Hindu Vishwa, by Sreevidhya): Growing up in America while being part of the Hindu culture can be a very complex and challenging experience for many. Children and teens from Hindu families often face challenges trying to fit into both worlds. Because of this, many feel the need to hide parts of themselves, and some even experience a loss of identity because they can’t figure out who they truly are. At times, they feel too “American” at home and too “Indian” at school. There’s constant pressure to fit in, and being from a different culture can lead to misunderstandings that only make things more confusing and hurtful. This might seem like a problem that’s easy to fix, but it’s not, and it can seriously affect students’ mental health. Many try to solve it by hiding who they are, whether that means avoiding traditional food, skipping religious practices, or distancing themselves from cultural traditions—all just to fit in with American norms. But doing this pulls them away from their roots. Even though American society is slowly becoming more accepting of different cultures, many students still feel unsure about their identity and where they truly belong.
Parents also face major challenges raising their children in America. Many struggle to pass on religious values, cultural traditions, and native languages to kids who are heavily influenced by American society. Parenting styles often clash, with children wanting a more Western approach that doesn’t always align with traditional expectations. These differences can lead to arguments, especially when children don’t fully embrace the culture their parents are trying to preserve. However, although growing up as a Hindu in America can feel challenging at times, it can also be a very rewarding experience. Living between two cultures might cause confusion at times, but it also helps build pride, confidence and a strong sense of identity. It’s important for parents and extended family to understand what their children are going through. When they listen, offer support, and help with everyday problems—like fitting in at school or practicing traditions—children feel more supported. With the right guidance, they can stay connected to their culture, be proud of their Hindu roots, and become strong, balanced individuals who feel comfortable in both worlds.
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