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April 1983
Hindu Families of New Orleans Face Challenge of Raising Their Children as Hindus
The town that has often been
called the "gayest and liveliest city East or West of the Mississippi" -
New Orleans - is now the home of over 200 Hindu families, many of whom are
soberly calculating how much time remains to teach their children Hindu
values before American values supersede through default. So far, so good.
Due to the assiduous efforts of a core group of families, the prospects
for "Hindu values first" looks promising. The mainstay organization, The
Hindu Temple Society of Greater new Orleans (incorporated and tax-exempt),
bold in their committment to the next generation, recently acquired a 1/2
acre site for an Agamic temple near the banks of the Mississippi
River.
Dr. C. Sharma, Secretary of the Temple Society, explained
that in the first half of 1983 they plan to build a hall on the property
where a Ganesha Deity will be installed. Regular pujas will be done to win
His blessings for the removal of all obstacles to the success of the
full-fledged Agamic temple that they want to build on the same property.
To date, it had not been decided who the presiding deity for this Agamic
temple proper will be. The focus now is on getting the hall built to
provide a much needed place to meet and worship. Several members of the
Society, architects by profession, have offered their skills for the task.
Fund raising plans are underway.
The Society began in an
unassuming, yet strong manner in November of 1978 when 4 families met in
one of their homes for worship and bhajan. Those families were Mr. and
Mrs. Dharmarajen, Dr. and Mrs. Sharma, Dr. and Mrs. Radhakrishnamurthy,
Mr. and Mrs. Sukumar Nair and Dr. and Mrs. Vijayagopal and their young
children. They had been living in America for many years and had devoted
their primary energies towards establishing a solid economic footing in
this country. But at this first informal puja meeting in one of their
homes, one might say, a bit of magic happened. With everyone seated on the
floor before a small altar with Gods Ganesha, Shiva, Krishna and others,
the officiating priest, Dr. C. Sharma, clad in simple white dothi with
holy ash glistening on his forehead, performed a simple arati. Honest and
candid conversation followed regarding the impending consequences to the
children if no steps were taken to inculcate in them the teachings and
practices of Hinduism, explained Dr. Vijayagopal. All agreed that with no
religious identity their children would dearly suffer, as the negative
aspects of American life would undoubtedly secure a toll. "We decided
right then and there," said Dr. Sharma, "to continue to meet each Sunday
to sing bhajans and performs puja to our Gods." Their responsibility to
the children had been clearly cognized. And Mr. Vijayagopal readily admits
that not just a little fear helped to shape their thinking at that point.
Along with the resolve to continue these weekly services, two additional
resolutions, informally made, became the core objectives of the then
incipient society - to provide religious education for the children and to
build a temple.
The New Orleans Society has made sticking to their
first objective look easy. Since that first meeting in 1978, over 230
consecutive Sunday pujas have been performed by Dr. Sharma, (assisted by
Mr. Sukumaran Nair). Not one was missed. On some occasions there was only
the priest and one devotee. At times nearly 100 persons have crowded into
the shrine room of the host's home, though the average is 20 to 30. For
special holy day pujas, halls are rented; for the last Divali Puja, for
example, over 300 people attended. "Consistency is the keynote that will
see the temple built," Dr. Sharma adamantly maintains. "It is not the
money that will built the temple, it is the power that comes from seeing
that the puja happens every single Sunday," echoed Mr. Nair. It is hardly
coincidence that Dr. Sharma and Mr. Nair view the regular performance of
pujas with such a dutiful spirit. Both of their grandfathers were highly
respected priests in Siva temples in South India and they had the blessing
of growing up under the umbrage of religious parents who often took them
to worship at nearby temples.
After 4 1/2 years, on the other hand,
little had been accomplished toward the second resolution - providing
regular religious instruction for the children. Then, again in a quiet,
unassuming manner, classes were generated. In August, 1982, Sadhaka Diksha
Kandar, a Saivite Hindu monk for 15 years, arrived in New Orleans. He
approached the Society leaders initially to seek contacts for Hindu
missionary work in Trinidad. Upon learning that the Society had no regular
religious classes for the children, he requested permission to help get
some classes started, and asked if one or two adults could join him in the
endeavor, so that when it came time for him to continue on in his
missionary work, the classes would continue. "Two prominent men in the
Society, Dr. Murthy Akundi and Dr. Vinod Thukaral, both university
professors, volunteered their time and energies to help." Sadhaka Kandar
explains, "and within two weeks, classes on the basics of Hinduism were
being held." The classes were soon very popular, not only with the
children but with the parents as well. Several members humorously
chastised Dr. Sharma for not informing adults of the class - not so they
could bring their children so much as they could attend themselves!
Through the combined efforts of the visiting sadhakas and the two
professors, the classes became an inspiration. When, after 2 1/2 months,
the time came for Sadhaka Kandar to leave, Dr. Akundi and Dr. Thukaral
took full responsibility for continuing. Dr. Vijayagopal, father of two
children, said candidly, "When Sadhaka Kandar left, the children were in
tears." Enrollment to date stands at about 20 children.
Recently
Sadhaka Kandar sent some questions to the professors to ask the children.
The first question was, "What is the most impressive thing that you have
learned about Hinduism that you did not know before?" Anu Vijayagopal, age
11, answered: "that God's soul is a body of light and that we go through
many many lives before we are pure and our souls are [as] bright as God's,
and then we live with God." Arvind Mirtipati, age 9, said he was most
impressed in learning "that our religion is the best in the world!" Aruna
Akundi, age 8, revealed the most impressive thing she learned was "that we
have another body of light inside us." A second question asked was, "Give
an example of how what you have learned has made you a religious person
during the week, between classes." Rajani Nair, age 9, answered that she
learned to pray to God every night so as not to have any bad dreams.
Pramod Vijayagopal, age 9, answered that he learned the importance of
doing his homework and practicing Sanskrit slokas.
One of the
greatest challenges to the temple project is finance. New Orleans is not a
large Hindu settlement and "financial support is irregular," explains
Trustee Dr. Vijayagopal. "We have cultural programs which raise some
funds, but we need greater and broader support from all the families who
live here. If each of them contributed even a small share we could have
the temple built right away. But then it is not an easy thing to interest
everyone in the essential need for a temple."
For this young
generation, obviously time if of the essence. Those who were 6 and 7 four
years ago are 10 and 11 today. "There is much at stake," readily admits
Dr. Vijayagopal. But if religious efforts persist with past vigor,
American values will face stiff Hindu-value competition for New Orleans
children.
Article copyright Himalayan
Academy.
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